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Morrigan · F
Why play games? Why not just improve the level of communication
Jayciedubb · 56-60, M
@Morrigan because at the budding stage of the possible relationship, he might jump to the wrong conclusion and any interest he may have had could be extinguished. I believe that communication is key in any relationship, however, its best to improve it as you go.
Morrigan · F
@Jayciedubb that sounds like a him issue if he can't talk openly and runs instead.
Jayciedubb · 56-60, M
@Morrigan no. Its an approach issue. Maybe he needs time to open up.
Morrigan · F
@Jayciedubb true he may, but game playing as the OP has suggested is not helpful in the slightest.
Jayciedubb · 56-60, M
@Morrigan its all a game. A successful approach is key to overall success. There's nothing wrong with doing nothing while you observe their natural reactions to your indifference. I think 2 weeks is a bit of a stretch. If he really likes her (whomsoever they may be), he will be contacting her within a few days. The sooner the better.