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I see a lot of women on here keep asking if a man’s into them or not. Do this sure test that's accurate, don't initiate any contact with him for 2

weeks. If he doesn't try to reach out in that amount of time. He's not interested move on.
Morrigan · F
Why play games? Why not just improve the level of communication
Jayciedubb · 56-60, M
@Morrigan no. Its an approach issue. Maybe he needs time to open up.
Morrigan · F
@Jayciedubb true he may, but game playing as the OP has suggested is not helpful in the slightest.
Jayciedubb · 56-60, M
@Morrigan its all a game. A successful approach is key to overall success. There's nothing wrong with doing nothing while you observe their natural reactions to your indifference. I think 2 weeks is a bit of a stretch. If he really likes her (whomsoever they may be), he will be contacting her within a few days. The sooner the better.
Jayciedubb · 56-60, M
Yup. That'd do it. ..but maybe less time. If it takes him two weeks, he might just be bored. If he's interested and she's all he's interested in, it should only take two or three days..
turnedtostone · 56-60, F
@Jayciedubb nobody gets this- if a guy really likes you you don't have to keep chasing him down.
He's not hurt ,busy ,or lost-he just not that into you.
Jayciedubb · 56-60, M
@turnedtostone right. it also depends what he's interested in though. But for sure, if he's interested in knowing the woman, it shouldn't take more than 3 days tops ..and thats pushing it.

Lol a scene comes to mind from the movie Swingers. And John Favreau gets the number to a girl he meets a bar and, against the advice of his more seasoned buddies, he calls her right when he gets home. Anyway it's hilarious, but that's what it's like if he's really into you and maybe a bit desperate
Magenta · F
You should not have to do that, if he's into you you will know it and often, unless you're not a priority or he has too many irons in the fire.
If he contacts you, he either likes you, or he just wants a booty call. either way, it does express interest. LOL

 
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