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To the people that have stunning looks, you know when your looks fade the attention you get will fade too right?

I'm glad I'm average looking because I lose nothing🤷‍♀️

But regardless if you keep up with yourself you don’t have to worry about your looks ever fading away. So I just don’t understand your point.

Linseyonthereal · 31-35, F

A lot of famous people try to keep up with their looks. They still look great but not as good as they used to.@TurtleEclipseOfTheHeart

TurtleEclipseOfTheHeart · 22-25, F

@Linseyonthereal thats because they doing drugs shawty 🤡

TurtleEclipseOfTheHeart · 22-25, F

Is this just to make yourself feel better about not being attractive?

Linseyonthereal · 31-35, F

@TurtleEclipseOfTheHeart no I have friends that are miserable because they lost their looks😬

stratosranger · M

But my Mandalorian helmet never changes. 🤷🏻‍♂️

UnderLockDown · M

@stratosranger 😆Same thing my brother would say.

Rokasu · 36-40, M

I already try to diminish my vanity as much as possible. Not very easy when it's right there in someone's face.

Thankfully I can dress like a hobo and not just because I'm lazy.

stratosranger · M

That’s all well and good. But you really have to stop getting arrested by firemen. It’s odd and the secretary can only disavow so much information about your activities before she says screw this…

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@Rokasu

Rokasu · 36-40, M

@stratosranger Sir that's not an arresting. That's an invitation to the next drag show.

graphite · 61-69, M

Lots don't know. Women in their 20s blowing off decent guys and then, when she wants to settle down in her mid- to late-30s, has to compete in the dating market with younger, more desirable 20somethings. Oops.

Ynotisay · M

That's true. And those who solely depend on their looks when they're young usually have a much harder time down the road.

TurtleEclipseOfTheHeart · 22-25, F

@Ynotisay not always true

Ynotisay · M

@TurtleEclipseOfTheHeart Sure. That's why I said "usually." But people can be attractive and still be well-rounded. It's those who are ONLY about their looks who end up getting hit with reality down the road.

TexChik · F

Nice looking people who stay healthy tend to retain a lot of their looks

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SW-User

Imagine you get a billion dollar once and don't get any more after that.

Won't you enjoy the billion while it lasts or worry that you won't get any more.

Linseyonthereal · 31-35, F

@SW-User what if I want another round of billion dollars and can't get it?

SW-User

@Linseyonthereal

No you can't.

In this scenario, billion is like good looks not everyone gets a another chance.

UnderLockDown · M

🤔 I recall hearing older women admire my Grandfather when he was in his 60's...
Women are thirsty.🤣🤣 When I mentioned it to Grams, she said, "Oh yes, your Grandfather is a very handsome man!".🤣🤣

ravenwind43 · 51-55, F

Surprise! You can be attractive and get very little attention, esp if you're older. It's not one or the other lol

SW-User

Why are you so bothered by other people being more good looking than you? Love yourself first. Don’t mind about others.

dontbekoi · 36-40, F

Not to sound cliché but beauty really does come from within (kindness, intelligence, grace, humility) and that never fades.

SW-User

It's best to have good looks. Over a span of lifetimes everyone will get their turn at being beautiful or handsome.

CookieCrumbs · F

That makes sense.
You condition yourself not to be disappointed with losing something.

TurtleEclipseOfTheHeart · 22-25, F

@CookieCrumbs No it doesn’t 😭😭 It’s literally 2022, you can do anything you want to keep up your good looks if you really want to. This a new era.

CookieCrumbs · F

@TurtleEclipseOfTheHeart
Totally agree with you…

Look or no looks, you can live a healthy lifestyle to help you age gracefully.

Gangstress · 41-45, F

Im glad im below average
I can watch the rest lose their looks and ill still be below average haha

istillhaveanameitsrick · 56-60, M

Only problem is that people like me who are already unattractive will only get worse.

th3r0n · 41-45, M

I don’t look so great at all, but it doesn’t seem to be getting worse, so whatever

Tracos · 51-55, M

And there was me thinking the mirror was getting old ...

walabby · 70-79, M

Some people actually get better looking as they age!

UnderLockDown · M

Sad but true, I guess I'm just stuck with my cats.😽😽🤗🤣

Iwillwait · M

MeToo. I am just losing, always...

PaleandPolluted · 36-40, F

Im 35 and yes im disappearing

SW-User

“Average” is awesome to be honest

BarbossasHusband · 36-40, M

Thank satan I'm ugly

adobo ·

i’m not like other girls 😌

PepsiColaP

and?

Linseyonthereal · 31-35, F

@PepsiColaP not being mean just stating the truth.

PepsiColaP

@Linseyonthereal it sounds like projection or frustration. im sure people are already aware of ageing ,its not some ground-breaking fact

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