I am selfish

That’s not a bad or selfish thing if it’s appreciated! I’m an extremely quiet person, but I’m great at listening. So I very much enjoy the company of people who never shut up. Lol.

Don't be hard on yourself. You're fine, if you want people to hear what you're saying then just say it. You're not any less than anyone else and a lot of people just put on a face or don't think about it.

If people don't wanna hear me talk I just go talk to someone else because we either don't gel or they're a bit of a nonce anyway 🤷‍♂️ Be your own best friend and supporter, you're worth it, the way we think of ourselves is how we feel others respond to us because we project that outwards.

So you're unknowingly projecting that onto others thinking you're not worth listening to, when really you are.

You go for it, if you can fill the air with something to hear, let them find something to say back.

Try paying more attention to listening and reading.

I like people who talk too much. Means I have to talk less.

I wish you would too