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How can I move past this fear?

I may need to live alone soon. I have always lived with someone. I enjoy my own solitude but the fear Ive had for a while, is intruders. Someone seeing a woman living alone and going in at night to harm, rob, or worse. I dont know if it stems from growing up in the city or maybe all the Forensic Files Ive seen/ Datelines. I cant afford an alarm system. I know people have said get a dog, but wont be able to afford one most likely. Any ideas how to squash this fear? 😞
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Starcrossed · 41-45, F
*i totally read over the dog part.*


When my then boyfriend and I first bought our house he worked nights so I was home alone and it was terrifying. The second we brought home our dog, that fear diminished, and he was still just a little pup no way could he protect me until he grew up. Just having him there gave me so much peace of mind.

I think I'll never not have a dog, no matter what financial sacrifices I need to make.