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Gusman · 61-69, M

I had an opportunity to reconnect with my brother whom I have not seen for over 30 years.
Found his address and waited another two years before reaching out.
By that time the home was sold and he had moved.

Coralmist · 41-45, F

@Gusman Aww are you able to locate his new address, maybe from friends or neighbors?

Gusman · 61-69, M

@Coralmist No. I knew no-one where he lived.
I only knew he lived where he did through real estate sale records.
So to find him will be as difficult as it was the first time.

Coralmist · 41-45, F

@Gusman I hope you can, somehow. It would be worth it. 🌺 Maybe Facebook??

Gusman · 61-69, M

@Coralmist I looked at facebook. Not on there. Did not think he would be a facebook person, same as me.

Coralmist · 41-45, F

@Gusman You don't need to reply if this is too personal, but why haven't you spoken in thirty
Years?

Gusman · 61-69, M

@Coralmist We all fled our family home which was a tormented place.
My brother was married and needed to support his family so went to a high paying job in NSW, 1500km away.
I went in another direction, Perth, 400km away. We never kept in touch.
It was only a decade ago I thought about trying to find him and even when I did. I never followed through.

Coralmist · 41-45, F

@Gusman Were you close growing up? I'm sorry to hear you were in a tormented place as a kid as well 🥺

Gusman · 61-69, M

@Coralmist With 3 brothers and a sister we at least got on with each other.
When dad died we became a little closer having gone through the same experiences.
By the time of dad's death, 2 brothers and my sister had already fled to far away places.