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akindheart · 61-69, F
do you know their name? that is a start. there is also the social security death database. i have lost quite a few online friends. very sad.
GoldenOldie · 31-35, M
@akindheart No names; also not my friends.
State would be Texas; south-south Texas. The The Rio Grande Valley specifically. They might have been young or teenagers? Ages like 15-21 in age maybe? I know month and even a date though? Monday 9th Feb 2009 -- it might be a bit either side of that or not that exact day,,, its the day I was messaged on though... useful?
I don't know if teenagers at school would be in the SSDI
Thanks for any insights!
State would be Texas; south-south Texas. The The Rio Grande Valley specifically. They might have been young or teenagers? Ages like 15-21 in age maybe? I know month and even a date though? Monday 9th Feb 2009 -- it might be a bit either side of that or not that exact day,,, its the day I was messaged on though... useful?
I don't know if teenagers at school would be in the SSDI
Thanks for any insights!
Good luck... I've been trying to establish the same thing for months now.
I've resorted to telling myself that "no news is good news" for now. I'm honestly not sure that I could handle actually finding the confirmation that I've been seeking. I'm broken as it is.
I've resorted to telling myself that "no news is good news" for now. I'm honestly not sure that I could handle actually finding the confirmation that I've been seeking. I'm broken as it is.
GoldenOldie · 31-35, M
@HootyTheNightOwl hi I might have a method that might help you? Depending on how much info you know? Like their location etc
Send a DM
Send a DM
TexasOutlawTrey · M
Look them up
GoldenOldie · 31-35, M
@TexasOutlawTrey more difficult if there’s a lot of unknowns like name and exact age for example
ArtieKat · M
Nice idea, @GoldenOldie - but no chance of it working
GoldenOldie · 31-35, M
@ArtieKat what would be the pitfalls?
ArtieKat · M
@GoldenOldie Most people are on sites like this anonymously
GoldenOldie · 31-35, M
@ArtieKat hmm I see. Is there a way to prove no deaths are attributed to a location? E.g fake suicide; assuming a location is known?
YoMomma ·
Why? Sometimes catfish make up bs stories of dying or cancer for extra attention or sympathy or even scamming people
GoldenOldie · 31-35, M
@YoMomma I had a multiple fakes potentially make up this kind of "lie" to hurt and gaslight me... sadly it worked :(
It was a longgg time ago and I was a lot younger myself. But the "fear" stuck...
Actually this happened in '09 on MySpace... catfishing wasn't a word then. But I kinda wonder if the lack of a coresponding death would show it was a lie? I kinda worry the "fakes" were telling the "truth"
^^ part of me feels that would be unlikely -- but not impossible 😥
It was a longgg time ago and I was a lot younger myself. But the "fear" stuck...
Actually this happened in '09 on MySpace... catfishing wasn't a word then. But I kinda wonder if the lack of a coresponding death would show it was a lie? I kinda worry the "fakes" were telling the "truth"
^^ part of me feels that would be unlikely -- but not impossible 😥
YoMomma ·
@GoldenOldie who knows.. sorry for your grief either way
GoldenOldie · 31-35, M
@YoMomma Thanks. I don't suppose you'd know of any search functions i might use?
Or.. do you recall MySpace? I'm wondering if faking suicides or attempted suicide was common? 😥
Or.. do you recall MySpace? I'm wondering if faking suicides or attempted suicide was common? 😥
legalboxers · M
master death list
https://www.ssab.gov/research/social-security-and-the-death-master-file/
https://www.ssab.gov/research/social-security-and-the-death-master-file/
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GoldenOldie · 31-35, M
@legalboxers Hmm are some deaths (within the US) unlisted?
My specifics would be within February 2009, Texas (South Texas) It would probably be a Female, younger too -- like 14-22 is the age-range if I had to pick ages.
Is any of this likely to mean the name is included? I'm unsure about the US... do you know if underage (below 18) have SS to be in the SSDI?
Thanks!
My specifics would be within February 2009, Texas (South Texas) It would probably be a Female, younger too -- like 14-22 is the age-range if I had to pick ages.
Is any of this likely to mean the name is included? I'm unsure about the US... do you know if underage (below 18) have SS to be in the SSDI?
Thanks!
legalboxers · M
@GoldenOldie not sure. I only know thats a list for dead people..
GoldenOldie · 31-35, M
@legalboxers i see. but not every dead person is included 🥺