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I joined a meetup group on another site, and a few guys individually welcomed me and one of them went more in depth. Asking about myself, telling where he's from, what he was doing that weekend. I did say I have chronic anxiety to him, right up front, about meeting one on one rn. That's why I'm attempting at least Joining a group, nevermind actually meeting up, yet.

He had wanted to chat on phone within a week so I said I have anxiety on phone too, I'm working on it but could we chat here for a bit. He said no worries, taking it slow is good, but that it's important to grow in friends or more, on phone. I have not replied. I don't want to lead anyone on for a one on one meetup. But OTOH, he was kind and seemed humorous too. Should I reply? I *think* he's looking for dating. I just don't know what to do. Like I said he did seem like a genuine person.
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ScreamingFox · 41-45, F
Men on those sites can be very pushy. They are in some kind of hurry and I definitely don't trust it either.

You are perfectly okay to do things when you're good and ready. There will be pressure to meet face to face because ultimately you're trying to meetup, but don't feel pushed. You got a do this your way. I'm really happy for you that you're trying to get out there a bit, that's the terrifying first step lol but you did it. Have fun and play by your own rules beautiful 🖤
Coralmist · 41-45, F
@ScreamingFox Ty so much Fox💜