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I joined a meetup group on another site, and a few guys individually welcomed me and one of them went more in depth. Asking about myself, telling where he's from, what he was doing that weekend. I did say I have chronic anxiety to him, right up front, about meeting one on one rn. That's why I'm attempting at least Joining a group, nevermind actually meeting up, yet.

He had wanted to chat on phone within a week so I said I have anxiety on phone too, I'm working on it but could we chat here for a bit. He said no worries, taking it slow is good, but that it's important to grow in friends or more, on phone. I have not replied. I don't want to lead anyone on for a one on one meetup. But OTOH, he was kind and seemed humorous too. Should I reply? I *think* he's looking for dating. I just don't know what to do. Like I said he did seem like a genuine person.
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whowasthatmaskedman · 70-79, M
Some men are just prowlers and always will be. (not everyone of course) But thats always going to be a risk you take,,😷
Coralmist · 41-45, F
@whowasthatmaskedman I don't get that sense of him, but I really am there for possibly group meetups, not one on one.
whowasthatmaskedman · 70-79, M
@Coralmist Then, my advice would be "You do you". If a meeting that goes wrong is going to collapse all you have gained here. Is it worth it?😷