I Pretend I'm Okay

Since I lost my wife, I have two answers ready for those who ask how I am doing now. Those I know care for me, I tell the truth, however that may be. For those who are simply being polite (nothing wrong with that BTW), I am always OK.

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Dewkissedrose · 46-50, F

I think the reality is you may never fully be okay because a piece of you is gone. I haven't gone through it, but watching my mom go through it and express her feelings has opened my eyes. I think it's okay with telling only those you know are close to you or who truly care. Loss of any kind is not easy ... and sometimes we all have that piece of us that will never be okay again.