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It’s just not fair that life keeps moving without the people who should still be here.💛

My aunt Cindy passed away in 2022. My cousin welcomed a baby boy in 2023 and is welcoming another baby in January 2027. It just does not seem fair that life goes on without my beautiful aunt here. She would’ve been the best grandma, and she would’ve rocked that title.

My dad passed away in February 2024, and even though he wasn’t the greatest dad and we didn’t always have a great relationship, he would’ve loved my little boy SO much. I became a mom later in life, at age 36. My son was born in September 2025, and I just wish his papaw were here. I wish I could’ve given him a grandbaby when he was alive. I just was not ready to be a mom then (I loved to party too much lol), and shit, let’s be honest, I still wasn’t ready to be a mom when I got pregnant with Riv lol — he was a big whoopsie (but the best whoopsie imaginable).

I just… it sucks they aren’t here.

And my sweet aunt Tammy’s husband passed away last year. They weren’t ever blessed with kids even though they tried, and I know my uncle Raymond would’ve loved River to death.

It just sucks that life is supposed to just go on and continue without my favorite people here.
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FibetyJibets · 46-50, M
My dad passed away last year in 2025. I miss him often.
SW-User
@FibetyJibets I am so sorry!!
DymondHed · 36-40, M
my dad passed in 2020 (cancer, not covid), so i feel ya :/
SW-User
@DymondHed I am so sorry! :(
DymondHed · 36-40, M
@SW-User thanks, i'm doin much better now tho, even if i do still miss him
Patty81 · 41-45, C
That is what Life is, you get up and go on because you are alive. We carry hurt and loss but we also carry love and joy
SW-User
@Patty81 very true
1PrivateHannah · 51-55, F
Sorry for your loss. Sadly we lost our people but we have our "somebodies" to cheer us up.

My kids never saw my dad because he died when, I was 19. My mother died when my children were toddlers, at least she saw them. We lived with her in the countryside before she passed away and until now they remember her & she visits them in dreams. My kids are now 21 & 19.

Then my younger bro died when he's only 47. He's very nice to them, to me as well. He always gave us pocket money for a vacation in summer.
Strictmichael75 · 61-69, M
The unfortunate side of life
Firestarter · 31-35, F
Sorry, I don’t understand my life has to be this way either. It just doesn’t seem right…
mrnature94 · 46-50, M
My Grandpa (Dad's Dad) died about 2 years before I was born. I wish I had gotten to know him. My Grandma had a stroke when I was 4 and was unable to do things with me and her health declined quickly after the stroke. My Mom's parents were tired of grandkids by the time I came around. I was their 14th grandchild in 16 years. I can't honestly remember them ever calling me by name. I see how my classmates are with their grandkids and I feel cheated out of an amazing experience.

I feel awful that I never gave my parents grandkids. I would have loved to have been a father - just never found a woman who wanted to marry me and have babies with me.
Ramrod · 46-50, M
You are born and at some point in life you die,some sooner than others,that is how life works.
Gibbon · 70-79, M
It does suck that this is the life cycle we are born into and forced to accept it.

 
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