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Was my friend right to dump me after I yelled at her for not carrying about my grief?

So my friend texted me just hi. I replying hi how are you. She said, “Stressed”. I asked what was wrong and she said she has so much in her mind and worrying about her problems and explained everything while I listened to her. I told her I was here for her. I told her about my math class I’m stressing about too but she didn’t respond to that.
I repeated myself but she still didn’t answer me. I yelled at asked if she was going to ask how it went. She said I ALWAYS do this and make everything about myself. She was stressing, going though a hard time and I just threw in my math class. I wanted to change the subject. She didn’t respond to that. Then I scolded that I’m having a harder time and my grandpa just died a month ago. She yelled at everyone has their own problems to deal with and they’re not always going to ask about my grief. She said she’s done being my friend because I only “think about myself” and have a nice life. Then stormed off.
People are insensitive.
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Hanginginthere · 31-35, M
you are both wrong. you are wrong for not being there more for her and offering more emotional support. she is wrong for not doing the same for you. I think you are much better off without her 🤷🏽‍♂️
LaylaTheTallGirl · 18-21, F
@Hanginginthere So I’m wrong because I’m brought up my math class? I was trying to change the subject so she won’t dwell on it
Hanginginthere · 31-35, M
@LaylaTheTallGirl nope. you can't just immediately give someone a problem when they're dealing with one. if life worked like that we all wouldn't be here..
LaylaTheTallGirl · 18-21, F
@Hanginginthere I didn’t give her a problem! I just wanted to change the subject to ease her stress. She was rude for not responding to me. She told me off that I’m insensitive and I ALWAYS do this. Making the conversation about myself and that’s why people don’t respond to me anymore. She told me I have no empathy for what I’ve done.
Hanginginthere · 31-35, M
@LaylaTheTallGirl if she’s dealing with a problem you can’t expect her to reply right away, show some compassion!
Hanginginthere · 31-35, M
@LaylaTheTallGirl the fact that everyone who commented said both of you are at fault should tell you something
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