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SW-User
Doesn't hurt my stomach. I personally prefer to keep weight off, but I had a plus size Mom. She had a lot of issues from her childhood, but was a wonderful human. Growing up I thought she was the most beautiful woman in the world. I never noticed her weight.
Would she still be here if she kept the weight off? Maybe.
But I don't know where people are on their journey. I know for sure shaming people is an outdated form of vilification and spitefulness. So in these situations I would scroll on by without knowledge enough to have an opinion.
Would she still be here if she kept the weight off? Maybe.
But I don't know where people are on their journey. I know for sure shaming people is an outdated form of vilification and spitefulness. So in these situations I would scroll on by without knowledge enough to have an opinion.
SamInAZ · 41-45, M
@SW-User this ain't about your mom. This is hyping up obesity like it is something to be proud of. It's disgusting & needs to stop. Being nice & lying to people might be your thing...I don't do that.

SW-User
@SamInAZ you need to unplug for a bit my friend. You let this shit get to you.
SamInAZ · 41-45, M
@SW-User the problem is too many people don't give a shit. That's why nothing in this society improves. Just gets progressively more slovenly, unproductive & self indulgent.

SW-User
@SamInAZ I agree with that. But you, nor I, can do shit about it. You know it. And I have no feelings at all towards another person's weight because that's going to be their choice to deal with.
And just because I choose not to insult them, doesn't mean I'm lying lol I'm not a fkn liar. I just see more to it than you do so I don't feel so angsty. I don't need to put anyone down to get a point across.
And just because I choose not to insult them, doesn't mean I'm lying lol I'm not a fkn liar. I just see more to it than you do so I don't feel so angsty. I don't need to put anyone down to get a point across.
LeopoldBloom · M
@SamInAZ She’s not “hyping up obesity.” She’s existing in public as a fat woman. Nobody is forcing you to date her or gain weight yourself. If you don’t like it, look away and STFU.
I will never understand how some men are so threatened by fat women that they have to attack them at every opportunity.
I will never understand how some men are so threatened by fat women that they have to attack them at every opportunity.