Why did my therapist keep suggesting that i dont do anything towards my bully?
She said to just walk away and they will leave you alone.
Huh?
Huh?
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OogieBoogie · F
Well it depends on what part of your life the bully takes up - a bully boss will continue to bully people, but if its an acquaintance....walk away. If its a co-worker, ignore....if it's family - face up to them.
Bullies LOVE victims - so your therapist has a point there. If you stop reacting and caring about what the bully does, they usually go find someone else to pick on.
But only you can gauge the situation and what to do .
Therapists 'say' a lot of things 'in theory'.
It doesnt mean it works in reality.
Bullies LOVE victims - so your therapist has a point there. If you stop reacting and caring about what the bully does, they usually go find someone else to pick on.
But only you can gauge the situation and what to do .
Therapists 'say' a lot of things 'in theory'.
It doesnt mean it works in reality.