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Me and my girlf both apologised to a girl we used to bully in school (we weren’t dating then)

And she just laughed in our faces and said it would take way more than that. I can’t believe how ungrateful she was.
You are upset because someone who's life you may have ruined didn't accept a simple apology?
Strongtea · 22-25, M
Ok, we’ll try to get her to talk to us.@NerdyPotato
@Strongtea good luck, but also be respectful of she's not interested in that.
Strongtea · 22-25, M
Ok thanks@NerdyPotato
SW-User
You honestly expect her to be grateful? How self focussed you are.

It’s good that you two have finally apologised for making her life miserable for so long but an apology is something you owed her, it’s not like a gift or something you get rewarded for.
Strongtea · 22-25, M
Like I said it took a lot for us to swallow our pride and do this and we thought she would be happy. I suppose with these comments have made us look more at the situation@SW-User
SW-User
Some people cannot forgive bullying hurts people a lot and an apology is good it may never be enough to fix it
SW-User
@Strongtea then you must try harder
Strongtea · 22-25, M
Ok we will. Well do anything to get them to stop if I’m being honest.@SW-User
SW-User
@Strongtea good luck
CrazyMusicLover · 31-35
Rightly so. If I were her I wouldn't want to have anything to do with you. Just get lost from her life, would be my advice.
Strongtea · 22-25, M
Oh, but her and her friends have been making our life hell lately@CrazyMusicLover
Strictmichael75 · 61-69, M
@Strongtea you reap what you sew
Strongtea · 22-25, M
Yeah I get that comment quite a lot@Strictmichael75
SW-User
You want a reward for apologising.?
And no y
It’s about you isn’t it? annoyed because you think she’s ungrateful?
Strongtea · 22-25, M
Well it took a lot for us to do that@SW-User
SW-User
@SW-User sorry, that didn’t make sense, I accidentally posted before finishing
KatyO83 · 41-45, F
And judging your reaction she's right to have dismissed your apology
Strongtea · 22-25, M
Oh ok@KatyO83
KatyO83 · 41-45, F
@Strongtea Read this as a start

https://www.hazeldenbettyford.org/articles/making-amends-addiction-recovery
Strongtea · 22-25, M
For some reason the page wasn’t found, I’ll try to search for it. Thanks, it could be interesting@KatyO83
I think you are looking at it all wrong .. why should she be grateful when you both used to bully her? I'm not saying what she's doing is right but .. have you completely stoped bulling people these days?
Strongtea · 22-25, M
I know, but it just kind of happened, my ex took it too far, my girlf is still gutted and my ex met someone else and tells people she’s much happier@SStarfish
Ah she probably complains about you to everyone and thats part of the reason why they give you the wide berth @Strongtea
Strongtea · 22-25, M
Yes I think so@SStarfish
Really Lol so u bully someone for YEARS.. and think She or He will just.. forgive you like that?? Yeah eff ofd..maybe u and that girlfriend both need a taste of ur own medicine how it feels to be bullied and more
Strongtea · 22-25, M
OMG, we apologised to her, it took so much for us to do that and she was so ungrateful. Her and her friends have actually been awful to us lately@PrincessRoarBuddy
Barefooter25 · 46-50, M
It's nice that you two apologized to her but unfortunately, those mental scars run really deep. Maybe you can apologize to her again in 5 to 10 years.
smiler2012 · 56-60
{@strongtea] as someone bullied at school i can sympathize with her old wounds run deep
Strongtea · 22-25, M
cecile · F
you should have kicked her head in
Strongtea · 22-25, M
I don’t really like fighting@cecile
SW-User
@Strongtea No you just like bullying someone weaker
Strongtea · 22-25, M
Yes but we never really touched her or anything, just name calling etc. Now her or her friends have spray painted our names and ‘are bullies’ on the way into town. It’s embarrassing@SW-User
I think people ultimatley these days have a right to decide if theyre going to accept an apology. It's tough. sucks you had to deal with that, but that's the way things are.
Strongtea · 22-25, M
Yes I suppose you’re right. Thanks@BetweenKittensandRiots
SW-User
Well you should have said see you around fat girl! And pushed into locker
Strongtea · 22-25, M
Haha! That would be funny. My girlf is kinda way heavier than her though so I think it may have backfired on us@SW-User
Sepia · 36-40, F
Strongtea · 22-25, M
It didn’t go too well, but I think we’ll try again@Sepia
Sepia · 36-40, F
@Strongtea lol as long as you mean How both sorry you are that’s enough or if wanna be her doggooo
Strongtea · 22-25, M
I suppose we really want her and her friends to stop what they’re doing to us. They thought that it would be hilarious to throw eggs at us last week@Sepia
Sam17 · 18-21, M
Damage is done
Strongtea · 22-25, M
We have tried to put things right by apologising though. I know it was a few years ago but still@Sam17
Lauren19 · 26-30, F
SOIL-DARK.
MonaReeves86 · 36-40, F
I know you seem sorry but it takes a lot more than a sorry to forgive bullies you have never been bullied so you don’t understand it
Strongtea · 22-25, M
Oh I suppose you’re right, I just can’t believe how rude she was about it. It was quite upsetting @MonaReeves86

 
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