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Me and my girlf both apologised to a girl we used to bully in school (we weren’t dating then)

And she just laughed in our faces and said it would take way more than that. I can’t believe how ungrateful she was.
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YoMomma ·
I think you are looking at it all wrong .. why should she be grateful when you both used to bully her? I'm not saying what she's doing is right but .. have you completely stoped bulling people these days?
Strongtea · 22-25, M
My girlf did get accused of picking on a girl at work but nothing serious, other than that we haven’t bullied anyone since we were at school. We thought she would appreciate us saying sorry, but it seemed she thought different. @YoMomma
YoMomma ·
I seem to recall your gf picking on the other girls for how they dressed? @Strongtea
Strongtea · 22-25, M
Yes I suppose she did, it was more making comments that they looked a bit cheap/slutty as opposed to bullying@YoMomma
YoMomma ·
When i was a kid i told this other girl she looked like a baby (she was wearing a short lacy white dress that i had only seen babies and dolls wear) anyway she told her mom who told me that the girl told her mom that i was bulling her.. anyway you may not be trying to bully people or even think or feel you or she (your gf) are doing anything wrong but other people may feel otherwise so.. yeah 😬 your gf may not be trying to bully people but they may feel insulted and think she is acting demeaning towards them @Strongtea
Strongtea · 22-25, M
Ah ok, yeah they probs did feel that way. With our history and how we got together plus the fact that my girlf doesn’t really like going out clubbing etc, people just don’t really want to spend time with us@YoMomma
YoMomma ·
Maybe your gf secretly didn't wanna spend time with them because she may have been jealous.. @Strongtea
Strongtea · 22-25, M
I definitely think she’s jealous of them, she used to be skinny like them but has put on quite a lot of weight. They also always go to see my ex girlfriends band and they don’t get on after what she did to us@YoMomma
YoMomma ·
Ah, the one at the restaurant? @Strongtea
Strongtea · 22-25, M
Yeah, my girlf will never be like in the same room as her, she hates her for it.@YoMomma
YoMomma ·
Well to be fair your were her bf and cheated on her with your current gf so.. she cant exactly be happy with that 😳@Strongtea
Strongtea · 22-25, M
I know, but it just kind of happened, my ex took it too far, my girlf is still gutted and my ex met someone else and tells people she’s much happier@YoMomma
YoMomma ·
Ah she probably complains about you to everyone and thats part of the reason why they give you the wide berth @Strongtea
Strongtea · 22-25, M
Yes I think so@YoMomma