How to get over the pain, anger, and bitterness of being a victim of bullying?

{@mightylion] there is nothing wrong with that emotional reaction and it is only expected the anger and hatred towards those who bullied you . i can speak from experience as i went through it for twelve years at school and after . i see one of my main bullies from time to time i speak to him but deep down in my heart the deep down loathing is still there . i would not tackle him about as even the scars it has left mentally it is water under the bridge and try to move forward from it