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Is it hard for you to talk to new people ?

Do you try anyway ?
Magenta · F
No not so much, I just mostly prefer not to.
Unless it's at the mtb trailhead. There are some diverse interesting people. It's short and sweet, and gone.... 😄
LonelyPrincess · 41-45, F
sounds nice !@Magenta
Magenta · F
@LonelyPrincess It is! And usually about bikes or trails.
Not really. I’m generally friendly if they approach me. But I just don’t initiate it.
@LonelyPrincess
I thank my close friends here for reaching out [b]first[/b]. 😊
LonelyPrincess · 41-45, F
that is good they found you !@CookieCrumbs
@LonelyPrincess
I would say I’m the lucky one.
TinyViolins · 31-35, M
Not particularly. I'm not really that shy, just mostly disinterested and/or focused on something else. I don't care at all for small talk, so I avoid it whenever I can. Though it's not hard to come up with questions to get to know someone. It's just not really practical to waste time on people that likely aren't interested in or compatible with me.
LonelyPrincess · 41-45, F
@TinyViolins makes sense.
Reaverwolf · M
I like to think I am friendly, but often do not like to initiate contact as I do not want to feel like I am intruding on someones space
LonelyPrincess · 41-45, F
I understand@Reaverwolf
Buzzznut · 51-55, M
With anonymity, this site allows for safe convos minus inhibitions. I think we can safely talk about anything unless it could cause harm
Casheyane · F
Sometimes it's easier to talk to a stranger than with someone you've known for quite a while. But then, the topics are different.
Eklipse · F
No. I'm very sociable its more about my trust levels. Studying law made me a more vague talker and deeply analytic.
Tonydang · M
Some people on here are so hard to talk to
LonelyPrincess · 41-45, F
like everywhere @Tonydang
Tonydang · M
@LonelyPrincess that’s true some people lack social skills I suppose that’s why there online
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SW-User
You assume i like talking to people 🤔
LonelyPrincess · 41-45, F
@SW-User only asking lol…..
SW-User
@LonelyPrincess I'm joking ...I'm very much an introvert so it's hard for me
LonelyPrincess · 41-45, F
@SW-User me too !
exexec · 61-69, C
When I was younger, it was hard to talk to new people, but I made myself do it. Now it's easy.
SW-User
It’s not hard. It’s a choice but sometimes I do try
LonelyPrincess · 41-45, F
@SW-Usergood 🙂
Dadbod52 · 56-60, M
it can be. this site is nice though.
LonelyPrincess · 41-45, F
sometimes it seems like that and others not@Dadbod52
Dadbod52 · 56-60, M
@LonelyPrincess for sure. the good ones are worth searching for.
Since I assume most people want to kill me. Yes.
LonelyPrincess · 41-45, F
but why would you assume that ?@canusernamebemyusername
rrraksamam · 31-35, M
Yes.
No.
Most people wouldn't want to talk to me anyway
I will talk to anyone as long as they talk back
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LonelyPrincess · 41-45, F
sorry☹️ I know people don’t make it easy too@TheWidowman
eyeno · M
Nope not hard to talk to strangers...,
WillsonGray1974 · 46-50, M
it is hard and i always try <3
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cycleman · 61-69, M
People I work with, but only about work. Strangers even the beautiful looking ladies I am afraid to say Hi too but if we witness something then I'll just share some sarcastic thought of what we just saw.
JRVanguard · 26-30, M
NickiHijab · F
Not really, no but I also don't want to talk to every Tom Dick and Harry just for the sake of it
deadgerbil · 22-25
@NickiHijab do it for the sake of it
NickiHijab · F
@deadgerbil shut up Tom
SW-User
I do talk when required. Otherwise i shut up. It is hard when i do not know the person well.
Depends on the venue/ pressure. Sometimes you'd rather just hide under a table cloth.
SW-User
Yes and no
I'm not always in the mood to.talk to new people
paulisretired · 51-55, M
Always but I try. It gets a little easier with age and experience
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LonelyPrincess · 41-45, F
@SW-User I don’t even know you😳
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LonelyPrincess · 41-45, F
is that a blank comment ?@SW-User
Virgo79 · 61-69, M
In person its easy, here not so much, to many stuck on themselves
AngelKrish · 26-30, M
I always try to talk and connect with new people
Jeffrey53 · 51-55, M
It’s hard for me.
CuriousCouple25 · 51-55, CVIP
Not at All!
DDonde · 31-35, M
Yes
Only online really
caccoon · 36-40
Depends on the person.

But most people, no
Bang5luts · M
Sometimes it is and others it comes with ease.
iamonfire696 · 41-45, F
Nope I don’t find it hard at all
iamonfire696 · 41-45, F
@Dadbod52 I don’t think so but thanks. I just don’t get nervous talking to people or strangers 🤷🏼‍♀️.
Dadbod52 · 56-60, M
@iamonfire696 i get nervous around beautiful women like you
iamonfire696 · 41-45, F
@Dadbod52 that’s very sweet of you to say
empanadas · 31-35, M
No not hard but people judge me
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empanadas · 31-35, M
@nightjourney yeah they assume I'm poor af because I don't like wearing brands. I don't dress fancy unless I have to
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