I am unsure

Crazy how you can go one minute so happy, so excited.
To not feeling wanted to feeling stupid & let down again.

I swear when I try and flirt it just doesn't seem to work and or people don't like it understand it get it know that i am doing it ... I don't know anymore.
I am about done trying with dating and relationships all together.. (sigh)

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Carissimi · 70-79, F

Stop trying to flirt. Just be yourself and authentic. I couldn’t flirt to save my life, yet I realize that when I was with someone I was really attracted to, I didn’t need to try and flirt, it came naturally, and it was subtle. Let everything happen naturally, and see how it goes. I should warn you that even being your authentic self is no guarantee for a good relationship. It got me nowhere.