What kind of black mom do you have?

My friends racist commits are flying out of control a couple days ago she asked me what kind of black mom did I have. Her meaning was is she "ghetto" acting or "white" acting.

I have been sick for the past two days and she critises my diet cause i had a pizza this week telling me about how shes going to live longer than me. When she takes methadone, crack, and xanax at the same time. Really thats a big part of why I'm friends with her because I know shes troubled and i know very well what its like to be alone.

I have such strange feelings for her but I know something must change.

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JamieDeer ·

Thats a pickle for sure. You're so sweet to not drop her. Maybe just some brutal honesty that her comments are ignorant and hurtful. Shes very lucky you're so patient.

bushi2020 · 36-40, M

@JamieDeer i thank you but for people like her brutal honesty doesnt work

allygator18 · 22-25, F

girl, you trippin

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allygator18 · 22-25, F

@bushi2020 I think trying to make conversation if you don't speak well can be difficult. do not take offense, otherwise, you may be considered too sensitive and difficult to socialize with. Racism and insults are not ok but if you remind them no to do that or be inflammatory then that is all you can do. If they didn't stop just make new friends

bushi2020 · 36-40, M

@allygator18 i do speak well... its just they take jokes too far. Shes had a hard life and wrestles with drug addiction so i try to keep that in mind. I know what its like to be alone so i try to keep a open heart to her but she has been testing me lately.