LeopoldBloom · M
There's nothing wrong with the way you look. If I was younger and available, I'd totally date you, and I'm not the only one. The problem is your attitude. Every post on here is a complaint about how you hate your looks or how no one will ever love you. I hope you are using SW to get this out of your system or because you enjoy getting sympathy from others on here, because if you're doing this in real life, that's going to be a huge turnoff. I don't care if a woman looks like Scarlett Johansen, if all she talks about is how ugly she is and how no one will ever love her, the only people that will appeal to are the ones who have a fetish for that.
If you want a relationship, start by getting out and meeting people. Take classes in stuff you're interested in. Volunteer in your community. When you encounter someone you're interested in, ask them about themselves and actively listen to what they tell you. If they're still interesting, suggest taking a walk or getting coffee. Don't mention your appearance or how you want a partner but don't think you deserve one.
The other possibility is that you're clinically depressed. This isn't anything to be ashamed of, it's like needing eyeglasses or insulin or any other medication. So you should seriously think about seeing a doctor and getting this checked out. I'm not trying to insult you, I'm trying to help. If I knew you in real life and you were the way you are on SW, I'd take you to a doctor myself.
If you want a relationship, start by getting out and meeting people. Take classes in stuff you're interested in. Volunteer in your community. When you encounter someone you're interested in, ask them about themselves and actively listen to what they tell you. If they're still interesting, suggest taking a walk or getting coffee. Don't mention your appearance or how you want a partner but don't think you deserve one.
The other possibility is that you're clinically depressed. This isn't anything to be ashamed of, it's like needing eyeglasses or insulin or any other medication. So you should seriously think about seeing a doctor and getting this checked out. I'm not trying to insult you, I'm trying to help. If I knew you in real life and you were the way you are on SW, I'd take you to a doctor myself.
IAmNothing · 31-35, F
@LeopoldBloom I rant out loud on here because in real life I'm thinking these things but don't really get the chance to say how I feel. Though it does come out at times. I just wish things were easier for people like me but they aren't.
YoMomma ·
My sister gets resentfully jealous of couples too ..
IAmNothing · 31-35, F
@YoMomma I'm glad to hear im not alone in this
YoMomma ·
@IAmNothing sigh 🙁
IAmNothing · 31-35, F
@YoMomma what's her reason?
GuyWithOpinions · 31-35, M
Your creating that by telling it to your self.
Resenting others for finding happiness and working towards thier goals doesnt make you achieve your goals.
Put in the effort and reach thier level.
Resenting others for finding happiness and working towards thier goals doesnt make you achieve your goals.
Put in the effort and reach thier level.
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IAmNothing · 31-35, F
@jshm2 no, im going to continue to pass judgement from the shadows
Wallflow3r · 31-35, F
*throws popcorn chicken at you*