I hate seeing these couples at the gym. F*vk off before I throw a kettlebell at you.

There's nothing wrong with the way you look. If I was younger and available, I'd totally date you, and I'm not the only one. The problem is your attitude. Every post on here is a complaint about how you hate your looks or how no one will ever love you. I hope you are using SW to get this out of your system or because you enjoy getting sympathy from others on here, because if you're doing this in real life, that's going to be a huge turnoff. I don't care if a woman looks like Scarlett Johansen, if all she talks about is how ugly she is and how no one will ever love her, the only people that will appeal to are the ones who have a fetish for that.

If you want a relationship, start by getting out and meeting people. Take classes in stuff you're interested in. Volunteer in your community. When you encounter someone you're interested in, ask them about themselves and actively listen to what they tell you. If they're still interesting, suggest taking a walk or getting coffee. Don't mention your appearance or how you want a partner but don't think you deserve one.

The other possibility is that you're clinically depressed. This isn't anything to be ashamed of, it's like needing eyeglasses or insulin or any other medication. So you should seriously think about seeing a doctor and getting this checked out. I'm not trying to insult you, I'm trying to help. If I knew you in real life and you were the way you are on SW, I'd take you to a doctor myself.