So ex hubby booked a birthday trip away for me and him sadly he didn’t know we would be doing this as friends and not going to lie it’s been so awkward because he is in “I want you back state” and I’m like hell no we are done!!
Sadly this place we have come to has a hot tub which we both sat in but I sat in a meditative state thinking how this would be lovely with the right person.
It seems such a waste and the atmosphere between us both is a little tense but going to try and make the most of it!! 🤷♀
I feel his pain but I feel my power in what I need and want and we just are not longer aligned sadly!!
I have to agree with the other comments so far -- if you are in a "hell no we are done" state, how are you letting him take you on this trip, and getting in a hot tub with him? Cut the poor guy loose!
