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Kuronekko · 41-45, F
@foldedunfolding It's neurodivergence and the subsequent anxiety and paralysis that comes with it. I can sort all day and then the stuff will sit there for months waiting to be taken to it's respective places.
Some days/weeks I will have all the energy in the world for this stuff and I will do it until burn out because I can't guarantee that the me that wakes up tomorrow is going to be able to handle anything at all.
My house is at best, a tidy mess. Anything extra, like decorating, I just struggle to get around to having already struggled to get the essentials done.
It's not that I don't KNOW how to do this stuff a all, it's that I can't convince my paralysed brain to play ball.
Also I wouldn't exactly I got rid of that guy, it was never really a reality.
Some days/weeks I will have all the energy in the world for this stuff and I will do it until burn out because I can't guarantee that the me that wakes up tomorrow is going to be able to handle anything at all.
My house is at best, a tidy mess. Anything extra, like decorating, I just struggle to get around to having already struggled to get the essentials done.
It's not that I don't KNOW how to do this stuff a all, it's that I can't convince my paralysed brain to play ball.
Also I wouldn't exactly I got rid of that guy, it was never really a reality.
foldedunfolding · 41-45, F
@Kuronekko i totally get it..i also live with my neurodivergent best friend, and witness how he struggles.
You have lots to offer the house doesn’t matter. Can you get out for a bit today?
Kuronekko · 41-45, F
@Notladylike I'm gonna take the dogs out in a bit, and probably gonna anxiety clean later lol
Jimbo7 · M
One room at a time babe
MartinTheFirst · 26-30, M
Beat the fear by doing a little bit of work today, motivation be damned
Ferise1 · 46-50, M
My house is disgusting. I can’t invite anybody here.