I just wish I could find at least one person who was genuinely interested in me and wants to actively pursue me but that's out of reach

Not likely to happen when you have such a poor self image as you’ve been expressing here for years. If you want change, you have to make a change. No one’s gonna come knocking at your door and do it for you.

I get a lot of hi's and how are you's but no one is wanting to get to know me for realz

I get you, mine are all people with tons of baggage. Single attractive people ignore me.

You haven't changed your profile pic yet. You have no reason to expect change if you're unwilling to change your presentation.

If you want to be noticed, you've got to put yourself out there. Putting up a picture is a good first start.

You're a "they"?

Firstly: -
1. Can you wax a surf board
2. Re fill an outboard motor
3. Clean a fish
4. Start a wood fired BBQ
5 Pour a Beer

I can introduce you to an Indian fellow who will fawn over you.

Join a club of some sort in your area, find a like minded group, get involved in it, you could find someone in one.