Are you currently trying to talk someone out of doing something bad? Someone I know wants to cast a spell on her boyfriend and make him blind because

@LILY61 No. Thinking that this makes sense feeds her revenge, which isn't empowering, bjt belittling; it tends to bring her down to his level, it doesn't ennoble her or raise her above this.

Feeding revenge doesn't move your self in the right direction.

@SomeMichGuy she isn't getting revenge!!! There is no revenge in this scenario. she is going through the act of revenge but basically talking to herself and lighting a candle and saying bad things about him out loud. Then the act is done and she feels a little better and realizes it is silly and moves on with her life.

i used to read Psychology today starting about ten years old. and one thing in there saved my sanity. it said that if you were seriously angered by someone's evil act then you should act out getting even with them in your head. usually that is enough and you can move on. i lived in Cincinnati most of my life and every one i met there should have been wearing horns. so i spent alot of time imagining killing them. and i am the most sane person i have ever known.

@being I think she needs more than that.

What do you think is the reason?😅@SpudMuffin

@LILY61 speak for yourself