So... remember how I got broken up with well I guess he didn't get the job afterall.

This is what happened.
https://similarworlds.com/struggles/5095132-I-pretty-much-got-broken-up-with-I-swear-Ill-never-find

Yeah so he told me he didn't get the job in California but there is an offer for another slot in another department in the future. My bestfriend is pushing me to get back with him and I'm not going to. I don't do take backs and I'm not a placeholder until that opportunity comes forward. Another friend of mine thinks I'm toxic because I'm not telling him I'm not getting back together with him and why would I put that boundary down when we haven't even brought that up. Im not saying anything until he says something. How is that toxic?

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jehova · 31-35, M

Agreed its his 'move'

FutureIdol · 31-35, M

@jehova Yeah that's what I feel too. I don't want to outright say something and come off as creepy or desperate, I am not chasing him down or fighting for whatever relationship we had.

OlderSometimesWiser · F

Tell your best friend to shut their pie hole and stick to your guns. You’re worth more than that.

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OlderSometimesWiser · F

@FutureIdol Not well enough for him to stay the course. I just can’t imagine you feeling good about yourself if you went back. Think about what’s best for you, the decision which will leave you feeling the strongest and healthiest moving forward.

FutureIdol · 31-35, M

@OlderSometimesWiser I agree with you. If I go back how long will it last? Until that other position opens? Im not a placeholder.

OlderSometimesWiser · F

@FutureIdol Very glad to hear you’re feeling that way! Good for you. 🙂

RedBaron · M

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