So... remember how I got broken up with well I guess he didn't get the job afterall.
This is what happened.
https://similarworlds.com/struggles/5095132-I-pretty-much-got-broken-up-with-I-swear-Ill-never-find
Yeah so he told me he didn't get the job in California but there is an offer for another slot in another department in the future. My bestfriend is pushing me to get back with him and I'm not going to. I don't do take backs and I'm not a placeholder until that opportunity comes forward. Another friend of mine thinks I'm toxic because I'm not telling him I'm not getting back together with him and why would I put that boundary down when we haven't even brought that up. Im not saying anything until he says something. How is that toxic?
https://similarworlds.com/struggles/5095132-I-pretty-much-got-broken-up-with-I-swear-Ill-never-find
Yeah so he told me he didn't get the job in California but there is an offer for another slot in another department in the future. My bestfriend is pushing me to get back with him and I'm not going to. I don't do take backs and I'm not a placeholder until that opportunity comes forward. Another friend of mine thinks I'm toxic because I'm not telling him I'm not getting back together with him and why would I put that boundary down when we haven't even brought that up. Im not saying anything until he says something. How is that toxic?
31-35, M
