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twiigss · M
I was once told that I'm "too nice of a guy". Basically there was this girl I liked at the Walmart when I was working there so this girls friend got us two together and then her and her BF got together and the 4 of us went out at 2am to a local diner.
I was nothing but kind, respectful, holding hands, little kisses here and there and all of a sudden she's gotta go bathroom. When she comes back she's completely different, standoffish, quiet, doesn't want to hold hands etc.
So next time when I went into work I saw her friend and said, what happened? Did I do something wrong? Her friend goes, she thinks you're too nice of a guy to be with. You didn't hit or yell at her. I'm like, oookay. But in my mind I'm going, seriously????
Well I'll never change from being a nice guy, because it's wrong to hit a woman. You open the door for a woman, when at a restaurant you pull the seat out for her to sit in, like I know how to treat a woman right. My problem is that I'm kind of clingy, but I don't see a problem with that.
I was nothing but kind, respectful, holding hands, little kisses here and there and all of a sudden she's gotta go bathroom. When she comes back she's completely different, standoffish, quiet, doesn't want to hold hands etc.
So next time when I went into work I saw her friend and said, what happened? Did I do something wrong? Her friend goes, she thinks you're too nice of a guy to be with. You didn't hit or yell at her. I'm like, oookay. But in my mind I'm going, seriously????
Well I'll never change from being a nice guy, because it's wrong to hit a woman. You open the door for a woman, when at a restaurant you pull the seat out for her to sit in, like I know how to treat a woman right. My problem is that I'm kind of clingy, but I don't see a problem with that.
twiigss · M
@Lilliesandlight Exactly. I just stood there in complete confusion. I have heard that there are women who see abuse as love, and that they need it in their relationship. (But I think people I've heard that from mean this local area)
That is just crazy talk. I would never in a million years think of abusing a woman, period. I just want to go out for a coffee and talk and enjoy the time together.
That is just crazy talk. I would never in a million years think of abusing a woman, period. I just want to go out for a coffee and talk and enjoy the time together.
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