Why should we feel good about ourselves...

More than disliking ourselves?

I know intellectually it is good to like oneself because then we can give more when WE feel good.

(I was drilled though to never like anything about myself. That I was selfish).
But what might be some other reasons to actually like yourself?

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Ontheroad · M

Why shouldn't we? Really, unless you are a horrible person you have many redeeming, kind and giving qualities, so why not feel good about yourself?

Baybreeze · 41-45, F

@Ontheroad It is a toxic belief ...from abuse unfortunately. That I was selfish to ever enjoy anything...even if I was reading I was screamed at and shamed. It is not normal I realize...its a tough thing trying to find ways you deserve happiness.

MsSwan

@Baybreeze Just as it was drilled into your head that you're selfish, now you must drill positive things into your head everyday.

Baybreeze · 41-45, F

@MsSwan Thank you🪻