Forgiveness is hard.

I swear. This is absolute truth that is inside me right now.

Last year i bullied and belittled at work by my boss and her bestie. It got to a point where i had to get out. They were targeting me. Every mistake was being blown way out of proportion. I still work at the same compony and tomorrow they might need my help. I will need to be professional. But heaven help me if I have to hear their voices tomorrow. I still have nightmares about what they did to me. It was completely emotionally abusive work place. Toxic to the point of suffocation.

And right now all i can think is the endless amount of damage i can do by just not answering the phone. But like i said i need to be professional and my upward mobility might be on the line.

Anyone got thoughts?

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4meAndyou · F

Does your company have an HR department? If it does, then you need to very secretly and carefully make recordings of your boss and her bestie verbally abusing you, and take it to HR. On your lunch break, so they won't twig to your absence.

And then, update your resume, and send it out EVERYWHERE.

Alorajade · 36-40, F

@4meAndyou at the end of the day they broke me to the point where i was afraid that if i took them to hr theyd prove me incompetent. Like i deserved their abuse. So i just quit and went to another depart.

I have to say today i was professional and help them and only lost my composure once.

4meAndyou · F

@Alorajade The problem is, they will continue to find new victims.

Alorajade · 36-40, F

@4meAndyou i am working on a case. But they had issues with me cause the lady wanted her friend to have my job. Because there is no proof other than their behavior and now the bullying stopped. If will look like i was the problem child. Important enough ppl know what they did. Theyre movement is limited and be the end of the year everything will back fire on them.