Could monogamy be culture that was taught to Man?

@SW-User in a sense then it’s evolution

@Heavenlywarrior Yes, we evolve more than just physically.

@SW-User I agree. To go against the nature and animalistic desires is definitely evolution in my opinion.

@Camelia to the words tied down … sometimes. As for One woman… not anymore.

I did try for several years. But I can’t shake the mentality

@Heavenlywarrior Polygamy seems like the answer, then. Lol

@Camelia possibly I’m considering

@SW-User how is it nonsense tho? When the majority out rules monogamy. ALL THROUGHOUT HISTORY.

It can literally be Tracked statistically that it’s a rare “Special” thing that men and women stay with one partner during their lifetime or don’t even cheat.

@Heavenlywarrior There's plenty of history you can scroll back on that shows you that jealousy is always at play in the mating game. Kings and other rich could afford concubines but the fact that the rich could afford to surround themselves with beautiful women isn't a sign of nature, it is a sign that power allows you to get away with more than the average person can. The poor and the middle class always settled for one spouse. Sure cheating happened and cheating always sparked jealousy, be it a man or woman. Usually this argument is by men that want to play around but as soon as the women desire the same then it's suddenly a no no. That's again an indication that it's bullshit.

@SW-User I see where your point is , however the average lower class did the same as the kings and upper class.. men having women on the side or pimps and hoes always existed. Or the man who has many women or the woman who has many men…

It’s becoming a norm also that people aren’t getting with each other just to procreate. They are hooking up based on just sexual expression / lust/ fantasy whatever you wanna call it hook up culture.

I feel While on one hand it’s based on pure desire there can also be order and balance in it if all parties are open and down with whatever program has been established.

@Heavenlywarrior I think religion in general is a pretty bad idea. Basically because they all say pretty much the same thing.
[quote]Believe this immediately or you're off to Hell for eternity[/quote]
When the humans who say it don't have the authority to do so

@Picklebobble2 this is a very valid point.

@Heavenlywarrior I suppose, when you think about it, originally we were all born into tribes.
So i guess the fittest and the strongest were matched to ensure the survival of the tribe.

@TheOneyouwerewarnedabout interesting one mate for life eh?

@MsSwan I feel u

@OogieBoogie ah… family. I see. Makes total sense.

@Heavenlywarrior it's a social necessity .
Well, unless we were better united as a society and structured childcare in a community way.

But we dont .

But generally speaking Sexuality within itself has a short shelf life.
Its like drugs ....it's chemical .
You get the initial high, it peters out and then requires work and patience and more effort to feel that good .
So.....we start the process again with a new person - it's easier.

But I do think there are those that sex is deeper. It's not just chemical ....it's also psychological . And you only get that deep with time.

@OogieBoogie very interesting explanation. This separates us from animal nature