How can one feel good about themselves...

Or confident, without feeling arrogant/selfish?

I struggle with this so much. I feel I can never tap into that phrase people use "Take me as I am." Or ever feel I can offer someone something...my mind will not allow me to. It overrides it with You are selfish. Or "Who do you think you are?" That was engrained in me growing up. 😟

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cherokeepatti · 61-69, F

Self confidence is not selfish at all

IndianaJoes · M

@cherokeepatti you are correct... Self confidence is definitely not selfish. It's a good thing and for some people it's hard to get but very useful in life for accomplishments.