Idk what to do
Im on the verge of a heartattack I feel like im going crazy...
Less than 5 days from an overseas trip anticipated for 9 mths with my long distance gf of a year and a bit... and we're fighting over the fact that I dont want to give her direct access to my main bank account from where I get paid and pay my bills.
I share my money with her through a different card but it got deactivated through a mishap. FYI no she did not use that card much in the past, just occassional take out but Im soooo not comfy with giving my main card deets. I know she wouldnt abuse my trust should I let her but I flat out dont want to give that card and would prefer a proxy method (an inbetween card/account) but shes not having it because its an action of distrust.....
Less than 5 days from an overseas trip anticipated for 9 mths with my long distance gf of a year and a bit... and we're fighting over the fact that I dont want to give her direct access to my main bank account from where I get paid and pay my bills.
I share my money with her through a different card but it got deactivated through a mishap. FYI no she did not use that card much in the past, just occassional take out but Im soooo not comfy with giving my main card deets. I know she wouldnt abuse my trust should I let her but I flat out dont want to give that card and would prefer a proxy method (an inbetween card/account) but shes not having it because its an action of distrust.....
