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samueltyler2 · 80-89, M
Chops · 18-21, F
@samueltyler2 How will I know if I'm trying too hard? I'm trying to compensate for my lack of social interaction I had when I was in highschool and I can't tell if what I'm doing is right or not.
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I doubt it's anything personal. I think most people just get caught up in their own schedules. Like they have you categorized into their school section of their schedule and outside of school they have time set aside for other people or other things. It's not unusual to have separate work friends, school friends, and then try to find time for family/relationships. It's a lot to balance, so I think we often relegate people to one category that can be difficult to get out of.
For online people, well... If they're here instead of out with people, it's probably because they're awkward. And awkward people have difficulty keeping conversations going. Or they just kind of vanish at some point, because they finally found somewhere to be or someone to be with. Which is great for them, but... Y'know.
Making friends as an adult is hard. But keep reaching out. Someone will reach back.
For online people, well... If they're here instead of out with people, it's probably because they're awkward. And awkward people have difficulty keeping conversations going. Or they just kind of vanish at some point, because they finally found somewhere to be or someone to be with. Which is great for them, but... Y'know.
Making friends as an adult is hard. But keep reaching out. Someone will reach back.