How would you feel about a lover that has his ex name tattooed on his chest?

Not only does he have her name tattooed on his chest but he talks about her all the time ,
Non the less he claims to wanna marry you
But he refuses to get the tattoo removed 😕
He says he got it before he met you
He's ex left him with no remorse

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revenant · F

If he really wanted you he would take the tattoo off. Removing the tattoo is no big deal, it is not like asking him to cut off his little finger. You should not have the reminder of his ex every day !🙂

atlantic59 · 61-69, M

@revenant not to be sarcastic, it would be good to confront him with a tattoo removing device and say: "What's it gonna be, boy, me or her"? and put him on the big decision mode with that burning tool in her hand

revenant · F

@atlantic59 aha I would do that ! but I still would not have liked that he did not take the initiative without my input anyway. He should not have been asked but done it of his own accord. Dunno...if the tables had been turned..

atlantic59 · 61-69, M

@revenant No, you are absolutely right. Have you noticed that men's brains work differently than women's and that never the twain shall meet, unless coercion and absolute acceptance finally get beaten into them..

revenant · F

@atlantic59 nahhhh...although it is a different psychology overall .

atlantic59 · 61-69, M

@revenant I love observing couples.
From a distance.
Juggling my binoculars with my note pad in a tree limb, though, can prove challenging...
but still I think I learn something

revenant · F

@atlantic59 on a beach ?😯

atlantic59 · 61-69, M

@revenant wherever happy couples hang out, before the transition to unhappy couples which really needs more intense observation, and funding, especially since fast get-aways often develop, and all I usually have is a transit pass

revenant · F

@atlantic59 A transit pass ? are you observing them on the underground or trains ?

atlantic59 · 61-69, M

@revenant anywhere there's a story, baby!
I'm the 'gumshoe' for the 'hot news'..

atlantic59 · 61-69, M

@atlantic59 but lately I stay locked up in my basement
after some of my in depth reporting got reported on

revenant · F

@atlantic59 😏

atlantic59 · 61-69, M

once what was once called Journalism
someone now cites as Voyeurism
and what someone suggests as Realism
is just a sample of my jism