Should I not be Christian anymore? [Spirituality & Religion] So my lover is Christian as well...

Sounds tricky. I’d encourage you to follow where your heart takes you. If that means a religion that isn’t christianity then so be it but realistically, I realise the implications of doing that. It may not seem ideal but you could always share your beliefs with your SO so he’s aware and mindful of it. All while you’re still practicing christian traditions at gatherings. That way, you’re more likely to avoid the judgment and still be true to yourself. Although, I hope you eventually open up about it but that’d be a start. Good luck.

canusernamebemyusername · M

Take pieces from each religion you study. Each one has its own wisdom. When people ask what you are just say I am me. Paganism is very pretty in my opinion and I think the eastern religions can give tools to help achieve inner peace. So mix and match.

Pikachu ·

If you don't believe anymore then you shouldn't pretend to.
It's going to be uncomfortable, sure. But would you rather rip off the band-aid or keep lying to the people you care about?

puck61

Love is an action word.
True Christianity is what you 'do', not what you 'say'. Your dharma is up to you. Peace and strength on your journey.

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SW-User

The choice is between convenience and discovering for yourself

FattyMcFatts · 46-50, M

Do what you want.

hippyjoe1955 · 61-69, M

What past experiences?

TeirdalinFirefall · 31-35, M

Although everyone is being supportive about the idea of dropping it; in all reality, your lover probably wont be your lover anymore, and your family might disown you if you drop your religion.

SW-User

Are any of the belief choices you mentioned correct?

SW-User

paganism is too kinky