I'm in a dilemma.

The ex is messaging "I love you"

The dilemma is do I tell the woman he's been shagging because it lets her know in black and white that she's dealing with a shit head.

Or do I do nothing because it's better for me if his attention is mostly there.

I'm thinking leave it, don't send her screenshots but then am I being a horrible person?

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meggie · F

Leave it. You dont want him back or know what the repercussions will be.

Forgetmeknot · 41-45

@meggie yeah, I think you're right.

Ambroseguy80 · 51-55, M

I think your thinking is sound. Let him play it out with her - don’t shoot yourself in the foot. Though you could let her see the pic of him in your nightie. 😂😂

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Forgetmeknot · 41-45

@Ambroseguy80 lol - I should check 😂😂

Ambroseguy80 · 51-55, M

@Forgetmeknot you should!!! Inventory the panties drawer too. 🤨

Forgetmeknot · 41-45

@Ambroseguy80 😂😂😂

TexChik · F

You want someone untrustworthy back ?

Forgetmeknot · 41-45

@TexChik no. I don't know if it's doing the right thing to tell her.

A woman told me she'd had sex with my partner once and I really valued her honesty. I like her. We chat still. But she had no fear of him turning up on her doorstep or bothering her etc.

But I don't know if it's "the right thing to do"

I should just be selfish and say nothing.

Quimliqer · 70-79, M

Block him!!

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Quimliqer · 70-79, M

@Forgetmeknot This behaviour is totally unacceptable. Let him know he made his choices, now is too late!!
Good luck!!

Forgetmeknot · 41-45

@Quimliqer yeah, it's a horrible situation to be in. To make it worse the woman is the daughter of my neighbor. When I look at their house I think "oh well he's your problem now." But then I feel kind of guilty. But really I haven't done anything wrong. He has. I'll probably see the funny side in a few weeks.

Quimliqer · 70-79, M

@Forgetmeknot Your perspective is spot on!!

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