I'm in a dilemma.

The ex is messaging "I love you"

The dilemma is do I tell the woman he's been shagging because it lets her know in black and white that she's dealing with a shit head.

Or do I do nothing because it's better for me if his attention is mostly there.

I'm thinking leave it, don't send her screenshots but then am I being a horrible person?

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TexChik · F

You want someone untrustworthy back ?

Forgetmeknot · 41-45

@TexChik no. I don't know if it's doing the right thing to tell her.

A woman told me she'd had sex with my partner once and I really valued her honesty. I like her. We chat still. But she had no fear of him turning up on her doorstep or bothering her etc.

But I don't know if it's "the right thing to do"

I should just be selfish and say nothing.