I'm in a dilemma.

The ex is messaging "I love you"

The dilemma is do I tell the woman he's been shagging because it lets her know in black and white that she's dealing with a shit head.

Or do I do nothing because it's better for me if his attention is mostly there.

I'm thinking leave it, don't send her screenshots but then am I being a horrible person?

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Ambroseguy80 · 56-60, M

I think your thinking is sound. Let him play it out with her - don’t shoot yourself in the foot. Though you could let her see the pic of him in your nightie. 😂😂

Forgetmeknot · 41-45

@Ambroseguy80 lol I think no contact with her is best. I don't want to do anything to get involved at all. Seems like bad karma to me, anything I do could make her more hooked on him. She bought him a ticket to go on holiday with her, gave him a key to her house (which I didn't). He phoned me from his child's mums house once and asked if I wanted to have sex with him there! Obviously I said no but this woman is giving him a key after a day...she says she loves him... She is nuts or he has her very brainwashed or both. So I'm staying well clear because I definitely want to stay away from any bad karma of pushing her more towards him.

Ambroseguy80 · 56-60, M

@Forgetmeknot sounds like the best plan of action!

Forgetmeknot · 41-45

@Ambroseguy80 he came to get stuff yesterday and refused to leave. Eventually he realised I wasn't interested, I think, and left. But who knows. I may have to get a restraining order.

Ambroseguy80 · 56-60, M

@Forgetmeknot hope he didn’t take your nightie with him. 😋

Be safe!!!

Forgetmeknot · 41-45

@Ambroseguy80 lol - I should check 😂😂

Ambroseguy80 · 56-60, M

@Forgetmeknot you should!!! Inventory the panties drawer too. 🤨

Forgetmeknot · 41-45

@Ambroseguy80 😂😂😂