I'm in a dilemma.

The ex is messaging "I love you"

The dilemma is do I tell the woman he's been shagging because it lets her know in black and white that she's dealing with a shit head.

Or do I do nothing because it's better for me if his attention is mostly there.

I'm thinking leave it, don't send her screenshots but then am I being a horrible person?

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Quimliqer · 70-79, M

Block him!!

Forgetmeknot · 41-45

@Quimliqer once the loose ends are tied up I think that's best. I was stupidly thinking I could be friends with him but what he is doing is making me really sad and it's nasty.

Quimliqer · 70-79, M

@Forgetmeknot This behaviour is totally unacceptable. Let him know he made his choices, now is too late!!
Good luck!!

Forgetmeknot · 41-45

@Quimliqer yeah, it's a horrible situation to be in. To make it worse the woman is the daughter of my neighbor. When I look at their house I think "oh well he's your problem now." But then I feel kind of guilty. But really I haven't done anything wrong. He has. I'll probably see the funny side in a few weeks.

Quimliqer · 70-79, M

@Forgetmeknot Your perspective is spot on!!