Not confiding would be dangerous for me. I'm an addict, Clean today (and for years) The isolation, secrecy etc will get me back to drugs again. So, I have a friend who had walked this path and usually confide all my tricks and troubles, feelings, frustrations and elations too. Keeps me away from disaster. Feels light or relaxed. But that's my scene.
@peterlee I think everyone reacts to life's experiences differently, according to where they are in life. Nothing is 100% correct, but we all do the best we can.
@jshm2 I have good friends and I they are trustworthy people. But life has taught me that being vulnerable with anyone is too costly. I almost didn't live through that last betrayal and now I only function in full protective mode with walls that are tall and strong and as unbreachable as I can make them. If self preservation makes me not worth knowing, then so be it.
@EldritchFox I write out a lot of things, too. Some writings I keep in a leather bound journal. Some I post here. Other things are disposed of immediately or within a day or two as they are not for anyone else's eyes.
@HumanEarth Yep. I have the opinion that it's best to remain silent or let very little out. Sadly there are people who will do nothing but use that knowledge to hurt you.
I’m trying not to hold so much in because I know it’s not good for you, but neither is letting yourself be vulnerable around snakes or putting my shit onto others who already have so much going on in their own lives. It’s just hard to find that legitimate safe place with another these days.
@LadyBronte Maybe Rembrandt, maybe DaVinci, maybe Picasso, maybe Dali, maybe even Jackson Pollock.. Art is still art..It just needs to find the right audience..😷
I'm not much of a confiding type person. I don't feel that need. Or want to burden anyone. I may discuss some things to a degree with a sister or 'friend', but mostly I hold my own counsel.