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Who do you confide in? Or do you confide in anyone?

I've learned that confiding in someone anever leads anywhere good, so I just don't anymore. Not in several years. Life is easier that way.
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Zonuss · 46-50, M Best Comment
God. Nothing else matters. ☺
whowasthatmaskedman · 70-79, M
@Zonuss But you shouldnt have to tell god. She should know everything already..😷
Zonuss · 46-50, M
@whowasthatmaskedman You mean He.

I don't play with God.
Neither should you. ☺
whowasthatmaskedman · 70-79, M
@Zonuss God and I have a deal. She doesnt judge me and I dont judge her, or him. But when one thinks about it, the idea of god having a geneder at all does rather make them less than omnipotent.😷

RebelRaven · 51-55, F
My cousin, my sis on here, and my childhood best friend.
LadyBronte · 61-69, F
@RebelRaven Good for you! That's awesome!
Blondily · F
The hub, friends, my daughter and my dog..he's a great listener!!
LadyBronte · 61-69, F
@Blondily. My cat's a great listener too. And I've never been betrayed by her once.
val70 · 56-60
I used to confide in my priest when he was still in my parish. Now I still confide to the love of my life
Adstar · 56-60, M
The LORD Jesus...
LadyBronte · 61-69, F
@Adstar Always.. And more so as I get older.
Justmeraeagain · 56-60, F
Sister sometimes
LadyBronte · 61-69, F
@Justmeraeagain Sisters are the best
SW-User
Same, Google is where I do all my confiding ....;)
LadyBronte · 61-69, F
@SW-User Google is a good as anything.
AngelUnforgiven · 51-55, F
To keep our sanity we have to unburden ourselves somehow.
LadyBronte · 61-69, F
@AngelUnforgiven That's why I post here. This place is the 'somehow".
SW-User
Nope. I used to I gave up. They don't get it anyway.
LadyBronte · 61-69, F
@SW-User Some people have the emotion IQ of a kumquat. There are others that don't even have that much.
Domking · 61-69, M
Not confiding would be dangerous for me.
I'm an addict, Clean today (and for years) The isolation, secrecy etc will get me back to drugs again.
So, I have a friend who had walked this path and usually confide all my tricks and troubles, feelings, frustrations and elations too. Keeps me away from disaster. Feels light or relaxed.
But that's my scene.
LadyBronte · 61-69, F
@peterlee Friends in time of trouble can be such a help.
Domking · 61-69, M
@LadyBronte Thank you for the encouragement.
Best wishes
LadyBronte · 61-69, F
@Domking You as well.
candycane · 36-40, F
i talk to myself in the mirror and we both feel better
Quimliqer · 70-79, MVIP
@candycane Me too, reduces arguments!!
LadyBronte · 61-69, F
@candycane. Nice!
peterlee · M
I’m quite open. Many of my friends. My wife.

God, of course.

Professionally, at work, but only matters relating to work.
LadyBronte · 61-69, F
@peterlee Perhaps it does, but it's not worth the risk for me.
peterlee · M
@LadyBronte yes, I’ve been hurt by this approach. But it’s part of my positivity.
LadyBronte · 61-69, F
@peterlee I think everyone reacts to life's experiences differently, according to where they are in life. Nothing is 100% correct, but we all do the best we can.
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LadyBronte · 61-69, F
@jshm2 I have good friends and I they are trustworthy people. But life has taught me that being vulnerable with anyone is too costly. I almost didn't live through that last betrayal and now I only function in full protective mode with walls that are tall and strong and as unbreachable as I can make them. If self preservation makes me not worth knowing, then so be it.
I do believe you are right. If it’s something you want no body to know, then tell no body! 👍🏻
LadyBronte · 61-69, F
Magenta · F
The less said, the better to me. I've never been much of a "confiding" person anyway. I don't need everyone to know like that. If I do, it would be a sister.
LadyBronte · 61-69, F
@Magenta Nice.
EldritchFox · 41-45, F
I write it out here. I never confide in anyone irl that would just be worse
LadyBronte · 61-69, F
@EldritchFox I write out a lot of things, too. Some writings I keep in a leather bound journal. Some I post here. Other things are disposed of immediately or within a day or two as they are not for anyone else's eyes.
val70 · 56-60
@eyeno You're right, of course
LadyBronte · 61-69, F
@eyeno Yes. I confide in him as well.
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LadyBronte · 61-69, F
@HumanEarth Yep. I have the opinion that it's best to remain silent or let very little out. Sadly there are people who will do nothing but use that knowledge to hurt you.
You are absolutely right. The less said, the better off one will be.
LadyBronte · 61-69, F
PerfectionOfTheHeart · 46-50, F
I’m trying not to hold so much in because I know it’s not good for you, but neither is letting yourself be vulnerable around snakes or putting my shit onto others who already have so much going on in their own lives. It’s just hard to find that legitimate safe place with another these days.
LadyBronte · 61-69, F
@PerfectionOfTheHeart I completely get that. I used to confide in someone, but not anymore. I learned that lesson well.
LadyBronte · 61-69, F
@Casheyane Yes. I do as well.
Nobody…
None of anyones bizz 😇
LadyBronte · 61-69, F
@TheOneyouwerewarnedabout I feel ya. And you are right.
whowasthatmaskedman · 70-79, M
I agree. If you must share, Do so anonymously. Isnt why many of us are here?😷
LadyBronte · 61-69, F
@whowasthatmaskedman I like that. I'm no Michelangelo but maybe I need to buy a hammer and chisel anyway....
whowasthatmaskedman · 70-79, M
@LadyBronte Maybe Rembrandt, maybe DaVinci, maybe Picasso, maybe Dali, maybe even Jackson Pollock.. Art is still art..It just needs to find the right audience..😷
LadyBronte · 61-69, F
Magenta · F
I'm not much of a confiding type person. I don't feel that need. Or want to burden anyone.
I may discuss some things to a degree with a sister or 'friend', but mostly I hold my own counsel.
LadyBronte · 61-69, F
@Magenta As do I.
No one anymore. I'd rather keep things to myself.
LadyBronte · 61-69, F
@syntax Same here. I've learned enough painful lessons in the past. I don't need another lesson in that.
SW-User
I keep it to myself
LadyBronte · 61-69, F
@SW-User Yes, I do as well most of the time.

 
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