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Are you confident?

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Confidence is not, 'They will like me'. Confidence instead is, 'I'll be fine if they don't'.

- Christina Grimmie


I'm often thought of as too confident. Some even question as to why I'm so confident.

"What exactly does she have to be confident about?"

The thing is though, I'm not confident that I'm the smartest, the prettiest or even goodest one.

I'm confident that I'm not perfect. That I'm not the best. And that no matter what, I will always come up short.

I am what I am. I'm what I'm working with. I'm working with what I got. And I'm good with it.

That's what I'm confident about.

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Matt85 · 36-40, M
I feel the same as you.
Nevaeh0081 · 36-40, F
@Matt85 Glad someone does.
Queendragonfly · 31-35, F
"What exactly does she have to be confident about?"

Who you are is a quite common thing to be confident about 🤔

That's what I'm confident about. Who I am. What I love. And what I strive to improve. And how I like my coffee, my foods, and my people.
Nevaeh0081 · 36-40, F
@Queendragonfly Maybe. idk what it is. I bring out the worst in people. I think it's because I kiss nobody's @$$. I'm fair I think. Straight. 😐

Thanks for that. 🙏
Queendragonfly · 31-35, F
@Nevaeh0081 You have a light they only can dream of having, so they wanna put it out. Don't let anyone dim your light 🕯️
Nevaeh0081 · 36-40, F
@Queendragonfly 🙏🙏🙏
In some things yes. In others not so much.

I really should read the headlines or where these things are posted.

I’m not a confident woman. My apologies.
Nevaeh0081 · 36-40, F
@southerngent All are welcome. Men too.
Freeranger · M
I'm confident in the things I have experience in, the rest I merely try not to get too spun up about and try my best to figure out.
Nevaeh0081 · 36-40, F
@Freeranger Well said
originnone · 61-69, M
I've been criticized my entire life for not having self confidence. "If only you had some self confidence, you could....."
Nevaeh0081 · 36-40, F
@originnone better little than a lot. Humility goes a long way. Very important.
SW-User
Confident in a certain sense and yet, perhaps strangely, vulnerable.
Nevaeh0081 · 36-40, F
@SW-User sounds like a good ratio.
akindheart · 61-69, F
I love this post. This is exactly how i feel. I am comfortable in my own skin.
Nevaeh0081 · 36-40, F
@akindheart well said. I agree.
If it’s something I know something about… very confident.
Nevaeh0081 · 36-40, F
@NoGamesTolerated good answer.
I used to be. Crippling social anxiety, so less so now.
Nevaeh0081 · 36-40, F
@JustGoneNow Anxiety is a bummer. But you have confidence there. Especially when you write. 😊
@Nevaeh0081 ty. very kind. 😊
SW-User
No,not at all
Nevaeh0081 · 36-40, F
@SW-User I'm sure you got a little something something.
SW-User
@Nevaeh0081 That's reassuring
Nevaeh0081 · 36-40, F
@SW-User 😊
Henal · 26-30, F
Not really.
Nevaeh0081 · 36-40, F
@Henal we can work on it. 😊
SW-User
Idgaf if I'm liked or not
Nevaeh0081 · 36-40, F
@SW-User Same here. Mostly.☝️👍👌
Morrowind · 26-30, M
Christina Grimmie was killed, I still think about that. I liked her cover songs
Nevaeh0081 · 36-40, F
@Morrowind she had a different sound, yes.
mainvane · 61-69, M
some women are blessed with nipple confidence
Nevaeh0081 · 36-40, F
@mainvane nipples are important.

 
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