Hey all you knowledgable people when I open my mail box here I sometimes have messages in both of these catogories does anyone know the difference ir the reason?
That feature totally confuses me... some first messages come in as normal dm's, and others come as requests. I can't see any systematic filter behind it.
One is from a user you have contacted before and had dialogue with/maybe a friend and the other a user possibly from an age group you haven’t approved regarding being able to message you.
There's also something to do with a 'reputation' secret sauce, higher for people who do the 'right' sw things, lower for new, people who get lots of warnings, etc.
