Why some men try to oppress women's sexuality?

I think its really that when we started out as creatures on this earth, men did have the "power" we had the strength, we had the ability to bring home food and keep our family safe. As time went on, we no longer had to hunt, but we had to be the bread winners, so of course if we are in charge of the money we are in charge of the household right?

In charge of the household means everyone in the household, wife, kids, etc. are beholden to the man! (in theory). I think its going to take a few more generations until we start to see a true shift away from men having this societal pressure or societal knowledge that we are in charge. Now I say few more generations, that might be alot, but its a thing where people can change themselves, thats easier, but to make society change, thats a much larger move.

Not saying any of this is right or the way it should be, but I see why society pushes men in the direction it does. It needs to change.

It's called desensitization. Pornogaphy is more accessible than ever, as well as news outlets, narratives and other forms of consumerism that just confirm biases. And I'm not saying that watching these things once will hypnotize you or something like that—it's habit forming, over time.

If you give a population that much access to just about anything, they will become slaves to it.

Many men have forgotten that women are human.

Many people have forgotten that other people are human.

Because women have uterus, and we bring life. Some dude DEFINITELY NOT THE "ALPHA" of the tribe, had to invent a wholelass religion because he couldn't handle the fact women can choose partners and choose who they give their offspring to, and other dudes followed him because they saw they can entrap women into low self confidence with religion, societal brainwashing, rules and everyone, now even the one male specimens that shouldn't mate and procreate because of lousy genes can have children they don't deserve and a wife and regular sex. They added more slave labor onto the first one and so patriarchy probably formed.

Fear?

Insecurity, power, jealously

That double standard has never made any sense to me. It's illogical: if all the "good" single women are virgins, who are the single men having sex with? A very small number of so-called "bad" women? Or with each other?

Do you hate men?

fear of women’s innate power

I thought men wanted virgins and are wanting one

I’ve never met such men
But maybe they have a point, my girlfriend first girlfriend was very sexually liberated, and years later we got in contact again and she just ghosted me when I needed her. So I don’t really trust women anymore. Some of them anyway.