Why do some men tell me to shut up and tolerate when I tell about any guy/men abusing me

@SW-User I hope only some men are like that

I don't want to marry or date such men in future

@sahi81 of course, you’d certainly want to avoid that kind of man.

But if you’re currently tolerating abuse, you need to find people in your life strong enough to help you address it. Don’t ignore it, or let others ignore it.

@SW-User yes, even my own family members often used to brain wash me into tolerating disrespectful behaviour from other family members. I stopped talking with them when abuse got worst.

I am being alone most of time hoping i might atleast find good people outside my family.

Even when outside in my search, when I experienced abuse, many people around me told me to tolerate it and normalized the abuse saying no big deal and I'm being weak and sensitive.

Not everyone were not like that though.

@Husher yes, i did block few such men.