Guys are weird.

An old acquaintance kept hinting at me to catch up. But I was always too busy.

Finally, I had time and told him so. I mean, it was supposed to be a group meet-up based on the conversation.

Next thing I know, I was being asked if my boyfriend would be okay with it.

Like, come on 🙄

Why would that be a concern? It was a group meet! Also, if I do have a boyfriend, the dude wouldn't have a reason to worry. That, and the guy who asked isn't really competition material.

I'm finally seeing the woes of trying to make friends as adults. So much expectation and hidden meanings. -.-

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being · 36-40, F

I was just hit by a stranger, young guy comes straight forward filled with courage, asked me if I have a boyfriend... I said no then he asks me my age and next question is if I like him.
He says he's looking for someone.
I'm like, yeah but not in this way, I added, I'm doing friendships. He's like, what about one day only? I'm like no dude lol
And he left !!!! Like didn't even ask for a café, if I'd be interested in becoming friends or anything.
Clear clear, what has become of people...

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being · 36-40, F

@twiigss you too..:))

twiigss · M

@being thank you 😊

Casheyane · 31-35, F

@being Yeah, more and more weird behaviors are coming out these days.

Caleidoscope · F

This is what happens to me most of the times when I catch up with a friend in real life.smh
Its always like is A ok ,B ok ,C ok ,??
Like ,what ?As far as I’m concerned the first and last person to be ok should be me ..🤷‍♀
society n its weird rules 🙄🙄

Thevy29 · 41-45, M

One of the people I went to school with, liked to say ‘let’s catch up for a beer’ but he was always too busy when I tried to suggest a day. 🤷‍♂

Casheyane · 31-35, F

@Thevy29 Adulthood dilemmas. But actually, I still like to believe that if a person really wants to see you, they'll make time.

Nightwings · 31-35, F

I think it's so immature when people expect someone's boyfriend or spouse to have a problem with a woman talking with other people, becauss that means that they are weird and immature like that themselves.

Casheyane · 31-35, F

@Nightwings Actually! Like what the heck? If a boy is that insecure, then he would not even be on the potential boyfriend category.

I feel attacked when my acquaintance asked me that. Like what part of me would give the impression I would choose a guy like that for a partner??

But yeah, maybe he's projecting. Anyway, no go.

Ferric67 · M

hes totally interested in you

Casheyane · 31-35, F

@Ferric67 I didn't wanna assume.
But he just gave me a reason not to wanna meet up.

Ferric67 · M

@Casheyane I don't blame you
He needlessly made it awkward

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