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PalteseMalconFunch What's is abuse to a masochist?
What's abuse to a sadist?
What's abuse to a submissive?
What's abuse to a dominant?
I once saved a girl from what I thought was in a abusive relationship. He was hitting her. She thanked me for it and we were close friends for years. Some might say a bit more than close friends and I would have agreed with them.
So I asked her eventually to marry me. Her answer was no. Because "I was too nice", that is a quote. As well as she had been dating someone else that wouldn't let her get into trouble.
She wanted someone to control her wild behaviors. I couldn't do that. Her wildness was what attracted me to her.
She married him shortly thereafter and moved away to his home state.
BTW my personality type in the BDSM community is called a switch!
I could be both submissive and dominant by their own testing.
My online traits only reflect this switch behavior. And they quite noticeable. As some might atest to.
I do have a lot of known blocks against me. Yet it's mostly by the political and the religious.
I have yet to block anyone in almost nine years on this site.
They can either take me or leave me. I have no desire to be popular. Which can be shown in my profile view count, over that almost nine years.