You really need to start asking people flat out "be honest, are you looking for love or help?"...... (1)
Why do some posters believe they have to educate you against your will?Nobody is impressed with a jerk who keeps" shouting" "the truth" at them. It's probably more frustrating if it is the truth,but the fact that you're yelling at them and not being considerate doesn't make any converts to your cause.